Dating someone going through a divorce

As a dating coach/expert, what do you think of the idea of dating someone who is still in the process of divorce?

Do you advise your clients to take the date or run as quick as possible?

Also, it seems that about 40% of the men who state they are divorced are actually still going through the process. That stated, I have come up to some heavy objection from both family and friends – hence I’m here.

They have given many examples of relationships that began quickly after a separation/break-up, so I am beginning to wonder if I am selling myself short – being too rigid.

Make sure you have the facts Sometimes a person might say that he/she is going through a divorce when what they really mean is that they are still considering getting one.

Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.” In it, I concluded that it’s up to the individual. And just cause you WANT to move on from your previous relationships does not mean you’re really READY to. Generally, if you’re dating immediately after divorce, you’re hurt, reeling and looking for a safe harbor in the storm that is singledom. He thought he was ready for another committed relationship but needed a break before moving ahead. He told her he’d come back after he had time to sort things out. Very reasonable men want to love again, and are shocked to find out that it’s not possible.The exact quote was “if you’ve mourned, if you’ve healed, if you’ve made peace – then you’re ready whenever you say you’re ready.” Allow me to correct myself. I have a client who went out with a man who was separated. On the other hand, you’ve heard tales of men who went seamlessly from one relationship to another without a break.All you can do is trust your gut and don’t second guess yourself every step of the way. Negotiating the highs and lows of the dating game can be a complicated affair at the best of times.

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